Paperwork to convince myself of my ambivalence (23/40) I, for one, love that people can identify...
I Choose to Identify as This Even Though I’m Not It
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The Vasectomy Dialogues
When I think of manly, I think of my friend Travis. It’s weird that I don’t think of myself. I’m...
A Hispanic by Any Other Name
"Juan," the nurse in the waiting room called out. "Juan," she repeated. I was busy playing with my...
Unequivocally Racially Ambiguous
Gummy Smiles, Big Teeth, And Racial Confusion Photo by Olenka Kotyk on Unsplash I inherited a very...
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